The destination of your journey is just outside Zhongdian: Songzanlin temple. Known as the little Potala, this Tibetan monastery-village lies on a steep hill surrounded by high mud walls. Seems like a lot of monks live here, included some very young ones. The buildings are continously restored and painted anew, but this is a living religion after all. Enjoy the atmosphere since it seems quite real...
How to get there: Zhongdian is some 9 hours by bus from Dali, and a little closer to Lijiang. Count 16 hours directly from Kunming.
Once there take bus n.3 from the main street to get to the monastery (last stop).